Did everyone read Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret.
by Judy Blume as an 11 year old? I know I read it in 4th or 5th grade, but my memory of it is completely different from the actual book. After reading a discussion of the topic of God in the book online, I thought maybe I ought to reread it, since despite the obvious title, the book of my memory had nothing to do with God. In my memory, the entire book was about waiting to grow boobs. How many of us actually tried the "I Must, I must, I must increase my bust" exercise? Raise your hand. Yeah, me too.In reality, Are You There God? has been banned or censored many times for both religious reasons and for addressing matters like menstruation and puberty. It falls at number 60 on this list of banned books. I know I'm a little bit late to the Banned Books party, but I wanted to go ahead and post this anyway. There didn't seem to be anything in the book that would make me hesitate to hand it off to my pre-teen daughter and I'm not sure at all why someone would object to it.
My experience in 6th grade was fairly similar to Margaret's. I had one friend who would compare notes with me about getting our periods, and the rest of us whispered about everyone else, trying to analyze their bathroom visits to determine if they had gotten their period. When Margaret's friend Nancy lies about having gotten hers to feel more mature, I could easily imagine that having happened among my 6th grade cohorts. I remember getting my first bra, and being embarrassed that boys could maybe see the straps (or the very hint of them) through my shirt. I remember taking it off after gym and stuffing it into my backpack and then worrying the rest of the day that it might fall out and be seen.
Rereading Are You There God? as an adult was a good experience for me. In general I tend to sneer at people who insist that the books that they read as a teen are so much better than the books being published now. I loved Judy Blume then but assumed that the book would feel dated and wouldn't work today. I was wrong, of course. I have to change my (mental) stance to include both the classics and the contemporary now.
Did you read this one as a kid? Did you remember Margaret's struggle to find her place with religion? Did you relate to her desire to want her breasts to grow so she'd be "normal"? Would you feel comfortable letting your 11 year old read it? How do you feel about the decision to replace the description of sanitary napkins with belts to those with adhesive strips? Should books be changed to fit modern times? Are there any topics that you feel ok banning from books?
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Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret.
by Judy Blume (website -warning, has sound!)
Yearling Books (Random Hous)
1970
149 pages
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) came out long after the first three and I never read it. I picked it up at the library yesterday, but since it's not a reread for me I'll hopefully eventually give it it's own review.
, which focus on Cameron. Cam lives all over the world. He races boats for a living and likes fast cars and pretty models. He's called back home just in time to say goodbye to his dad. He has no intention of giving up his flashy life, but agrees to stay for a year to figure out what to do with the boy, Seth. Anna Spinelli is the case worker assigned to the case and she takes her job very seriously. Of course, Anna is wildly sexy when she's off the clock, and is pretty modern in sensibilities. She's more than willing to have a casual relationship with Cam, so long as it does not impact her job, but then OOPS! they fall in love. Cam is definitely an alpha hero, and a bit overbearing, so it's a good thing that Anna is equally strong and forceful.
. This one is about Ethan, the quiet, solid, fisherman of a brother. Ethan didn't go far when he live Ray's house and spends his days catching fish. Ethan has long been in love with Grace, but due to the difference in age, plus his background, he's always felt she's out of reach. Grace, who has always been in love with Ethan, gave him up as a lost cause, got married, got abandoned and had a baby very young. She works multiple jobs to keep her indepence, but at heart craves a solid, quiet marriage. Things between them explode in an instant, and then there is the inevitable struggle to work things out between what they each see in the furture. Ethan is really my favorite type of hero, so this is one of my favorite Nora Roberts.
, the third brother, Phillip is really my least favorite. He's a professional, moved away to Boston, likes fine wine and piano music and really doesn't do a lot for me. This really carries through to the book itself and while it is a good conclusion to the story it remains my least favorite of the three. The heroine of Inner Harbor is Sybill, who shows up in St. Christopher as a stranger, but who really has a hidden motive. She keeps her true identity a secret, which threatens not only the relationship with Phillip, but also the situation with Seth and the brothers. Typically, my least favorite type of romance is one where one of the characters pretends to be someone they are not, or who hides a big secret part of their identity, so it's no surprise that I feel the way I do about this one. I will give Roberts credit for not drawing out the misery of the revelation or letting it become the entirety of the story.
