Another meme

At the risk of this blog turning into a blog about my husband and I, here's my answers to the couple meme that is going around.
What are your middle names?

My middle name is Star (no really!), his is James. The Pirate's middle name is also James.

How long have you been together?
I moved to South Dakota in 2002.

How long did you know each other before you started dating?

We met online in 1999. We didn't become a couple until 2002.

Who asked whom out?
I really don't remember! It was online, so there wasn't a real "asking out" involved.

How old are each of you?
I'm 33 and he is almost 39.

Whose siblings do you see the most?
His. He has a large family who all live in South Dakota. I have two brothers who live in Alabama, so we see them once a year. By the time we go down this summer it'll be 2 years since we didn't go down last summer.

Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Money, I have real issues with money.

Did you go to the same school?
No

Are you from the same home town?
No, not even the same state.

Who is smarter?
I will not answer that.

Who is the most sensitive?
Also a tough one. We both have ways that we get out feelings hurt. I cry more at movies and books.

Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Without the boys, we tend to go to Friday's or Outback. There aren't a lot of non-chain things here.

Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Cabo San Lucas, Mexico when I was 5 months pregnant with The Pirate.

Who has the craziest exes?
His, a million times over. His. His. His.

Who has the worst temper?
Me. The Bug seems to have inherited it.

Who does the cooking?
I'd say we both do, with him doing slightly more. He'd say he does 99% of it.

Who is the neat-freak?
HAHAHAHA. I used to be, but now I live with him. (If this is not clear, neither of us is a neat freak. Anymore.)

Who is more stubborn?
Me.

Who hogs the bed?
Him. He also wads up the blankets and lays on top of them.

Who wakes up earlier?
We are both morning people. He gets up earlier during the week, but I tend to be up first on the weekend.

Where was your first date?
Our first fancy, all dressed up, date was at a really lovely restaurant called Canoe.

Who is more jealous?
Me.

How long did it take to get serious?
When knew we'd get married when I moved to SD.

Who eats more?

That's a rude question! He does.

Who does the laundry?
We both do. Sunday is laundry day. He takes everything down to the laundry room (in the basement) and does most of the swapping and running loads up and down. We dump it all on the bed and I put most of it away.

Who’s better with the computer?

Him. I get frustrated when things don't work.

Who drives when you are together?
He does, but I have to deal with the boys.